Wednesday, October 10, 2007

~ Long Day ~

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I want to start this entry with a huge thank you.  I so appreciate the kind words, support, prayers, candles lit and your friendship.  I wanted to put it here for everyone so I didn't inadvertently miss anyone.  You all have filled my heart and soul with a warmth that can be matched by no other.  I do hope you'll continue your prayers for my sister.   She so needs them, and I am being a bit selfish with my asking continually but I have to.   Thank you for not letting me down.  You have no idea how it makes me feel to see the sweet words left.  So many of you have gone back to make sure your candle hasn't gone out as they only last 48 hours....... thank you!   Some have mentioned when they light a candle they can't find it again.  If you use my link, leave the group name as is and it will keep with the rest.  Thank you!

 

Today was not good at all.  I was notified this morning that they took her to the hospital late last night/early morning because the pain was so great and she could not catch her breath.   She was admitted and numerous tests were done.  Her liver is very enlarged and is pressing on her lung.  The fluid from the pneumonia is still there but there is not enough to drain.  The infection has not gotten any better.  Right now they are not completely sure what is causing the pain.  She is on heavy duty antibiotics via an IV and has a pain medication pump.  It will still be controlled but she won't have to wait for the nurses.  I stopped by to visit her after work and got home a bit ago.  She was completely doped up but looked to be in a somewhat comfy.  She is getting sleep thank God.   Information is a bit limited at this point, but tomorrow there will be more tests and a plan of attack will be put in place.  We have no idea how long she'll be there, but I am so hoping she will be home soon.

 

I will do a few requests tonight, but I know I don't have the energy to fill them all.  I am emotionally and physically drained.  I do promise you all I will get them out.  Thank you again for your understanding and support.  You folks rock!  I will catch up on you and yours soon.   I promise.

 

Hugs

~d


40 comments:

Anonymous said...

I relit my candle.  I completely forgot they only last 48 hours.  Thank you for reminding me.  :)

It's great she's getting some pain relief and sleep.  I tell ya, just plain, simple rest can do wonders...not only physically, but emotionally and mentally as well.  That's something to be grateful for.  

Again, you're family is in my prayers every night, Donna.  

Much Love,
Bridgett

p.s.  Please keep us updated.  

Anonymous said...

today was my first time to successfully visit the candle site.  My previously visits have been foiled by internet issues...etc...

But what I wanted to say was Thank YOU, to YOU.  because after going through the steps to light a candle for your sister, it then gave me the option of taking as long as I needed with my candle.  and i received so much comfort from that candle.
thank you
tina

Anonymous said...

Oh i am so sorry Donna that your sisters in the hospital. my prayers and thoughts are with her and yourself.
many hugs
and lots of love.
Katie

Anonymous said...

 I am saying prayers for your sister and I lit a candle.  What a lovely idea.


                        Julie

Anonymous said...

HI Donna...just a note to say I'm sorry to hear your sis is in the hospital, but finally comfortable.  when I light the candle I also pray for comfort to come to you, her isster.  We can just tell how near she is to your heart.
((hugs to you and sis)    Bethe

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Anonymous said...

((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))for you-------many prayers and a candle for your sister!!!
Ellie

Anonymous said...

she is still in my thoughts i hope she gets better.

Anonymous said...

Donna I have lit a candle for your sister ...my prayers and thoughts are with you and your sister

Big hugs sent to you both

Mari

Anonymous said...

Prayers going up for your sister. Helen

Anonymous said...

PS. I went and lit a candle for her. Helen

Anonymous said...

Don't worry about any of us or tags the world will not end because you need more time we understand. You just take care of you and yours everything else is just trimmings. Keep strong.
Love
Debbie
xxx

Anonymous said...

Donna, my heart aches for you as I relive the emotions I felt and continue to feel as my sister suffered and I felt so helpless. At times I felt as if I was drowning, gasping for breath, praying, pleading, please give me strength. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Hugs
Debbie

Anonymous said...

My heart aches for your sister and all your family.  Please God she gets well enough to come back home.  Praying so very hard for her.
Jeanie  xxx

Anonymous said...

I feel so sad that your sister has to go through this Donna. No, you aren't being selfish asking for prayers for her ~ that's just being a great sister to her. Praying is the least we can do, you're always so generous with us. I'm glad your sister's comfortable and managing to get some sleep now, I'm hoping she'll be home soon. Don't worry about tags, they can wait till you feel able to do them. Just know you're in my thoughts and prayers. Jeannette xx  

Anonymous said...

Aww your sisiter and you and your family are in my thoughts Donna as I said yesterday, it is so hard.These times are very trying for us,and I can understand you feeling worn out as you say you are.I have sometimes lit the candle and not been able to find it too.I know  I have lit one though, so that satisfies my mind.Please Take Care and I hope when yo go to visit sister again,she is looking a little brighter and more pain free and alert.I hope they find some answers for you soon.I have left alone requesting at this present time ,due to how you are so busy and not too good yourself .I will be back requesting when things get a little easier on you.Take Care God Bless Kath astoriasand http://journals.aol.co.uk/astoriasand/MYSIMPLERHYMES

Anonymous said...

Dear Donna so sorry to hear your sister is so poorly ,I hope they can help her and she comes home soon ,and of course you are all in my prayers ,....love Jan xx

Anonymous said...

Donna
I will keep your sister and your family in my prayers.  Take care of yourself during this period.  I know your family needs you to be strong.  I'll be praying for you, too.
Sam

Anonymous said...

Dearest Donna

I am so very sorry to hear about your sister. I hope and pray that she will feel more comfortable and be free from pain soon, so that she may return home to her family.

Stay strong
hugs Jayne

Anonymous said...

I hope your sister will be ok.  Linda

Anonymous said...

Donna, I wish there were words that could make all of this so much better for not only your sister, but your family.  Just know that I pray for her daily.  ~k

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Anonymous said...

As great as snags and tags are, the most important thing is to take care of yourself.  Anyone who doesn't understand that, doesn't need a tag.  ;o)  -  Barbara

Anonymous said...

Donna, as I mentioned before, I've only recently found This and that and hockey, but am most grateful to have!  I will continue to light candles and say prayers for your sister!  It's a journey none of us wish to be on, but made better by love and support!  Take care of yourself!  Both your sister and you are blessed by the other!  Carla

Anonymous said...

Hi my friend, so very sorry about your sister, you must be beside yourself with worry.  Please know your friend in Canada is praying for you both.  I may be in Buffalo this weekend, still trying to decide if so I will give you a call.  Take care and god bless.  Will light a candle again.

Anonymous said...

I pray nothing but comfort for you and your sister, for the Lord to touch the Dr.s that take care of your sister, and for her healing.

Michele

Anonymous said...

Very sorry to hear about your sister, bless her heart having to go through this.  My thoughts & Prayers are with you both.  I sincerely hope she starts feeling better soon.
Lisa

Anonymous said...

Donna,

I'm sorry.  My heart aches for you, and your family.  I do pray the extra pain meds will be of help, and that a new game plan will be implemented "yesterday".

God bless & keep you all.

Cindy

Anonymous said...

Your sister and family is always in my prayers!
Missie

Anonymous said...

Soo sorry she had to go to the hospital.But it's a blessing that she is where she can get the medicine to help her pain.Rest is very important to her system now.
You try and rest also.Tell her that  her J-land friends send love and get well wishes.
HUGS to you all
~connie~

Anonymous said...

i am sorry your sister is in so much pain and had to be taken to hospital. i am glad that she is able to get some sleep now. I will go light a candle now. ((((((((hugs)))))
Love,
Cindy

Anonymous said...

So sorry to hear about your sister.  YOu know I will keep her -- and you -- in my prayers.

Kathy

Anonymous said...

((((((((((((((((HUGSTOYOU)))))))))))))))))))))))Dont worry about getting tag request done,we all udnerstannd.Your Sister is always and will be in my prayers.I do hope you have a nice weekend.

Anonymous said...

As always, i am praying for her and for you also. I hope she is comfortable and getting the pain meds or whatever meds she needs. LOVE YOU
lj

Anonymous said...

Donna, sending healing prayers up for your sister, Hugs to you Lisa

Anonymous said...

So Sad.  I will go and light a candle.  And think of your sister.  Gerry

Anonymous said...

Donna,

Holding you tenderly in my thoughts and prayers.

Dona

Anonymous said...

Poor thing, going through all of that pain.  I will continue to pray for her and for you as well.  I will be lighting a new candle Donna.  I hope tomorrow will be a better day for you.  Luv ya!

Allison

Anonymous said...

YOUVE ALL GOT MY PRAYERS.........CAROLINA OF WA

Anonymous said...

Keeping your sister in my thoughts and prayers ...
I will not only light a candle in your J I will also light one in my home tonight and say a special prayer for her...Always here for you Donna.....

Hugs
Terri