Wednesday, November 7, 2007

~ Home ~

This by far is saddest and the hardest entry I've ever done.  My precious sister earned her wings and went home today.  My eyes burn from the tears and my keyboard is soaked.  I know she's in a better place, and without pain. But, my selfish heart aches... I miss her so much already.  I hate the thought of this void.  I can not do her the justice she deserves in this entry, it would take a week to write, if not longer.  

 

Thank you all for the support and love you've shown me, and her.  I know she will look down on all you with a special blessing. 

 

Seester know I love you and will forever.  I will never ever forget.....  You planned it to a 't', my precious sister..............  to a 't'.  Hugs and kisses to you always!!!

 

I'm heartbroken and at a loss for words right now, but know you all have helped me through this......

I'll be back .........

 

:::lifting a milkshake:::  cheers!

 

156 comments:

Anonymous said...

Oh My Dear Donna My heart is aching for you
if you need anything at all or just a friend to cry to and talk to I'm just a phone call away
Biggest hugs to you sweetheart
love always, Marina

Anonymous said...

I hope your pain will be replaced with the joyful memories...I know those will be what makes it hard now but eventually she will help you go on.  Make a private journal & write her...it will be therapeutic! :-)

I have jingle bell socks on so I'm ringing them for her...like a bell! HA! Prayers from my heart on the way for the whole family!

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Anonymous said...

Awwwwwww honey I am so sorry about the loss of your precious sister, if you need to talk or anything I am just a click away , Love and Big Hugs to you  (((((((((((((((((((((( Donna ))))))))))))))))))) Lisa XO

Anonymous said...

Oh no.  :(
Donna, I am so, so sorry.  
I know how very loved she was.....and I'm sure she knew it too.  
Your family is in my thoughts and prayers, Donna.

Much love,
Bridgett

Anonymous said...

Donna, I don't even know where to begin. I am so very sorry for your loss. So sorry babe.

Love,
Stacy

Anonymous said...

Your keyboard isn't the only one that has tears all over it.  I was afraid to open the alert email...somehow I just knew.  You popped into my mind out of nowhere earlier while I was at the grocery store... I knew then.  
Candles will continue burning for your sister.  I'll be thinking hard about you and your family.

Anonymous said...

May God wrap His arms of love around you and each one in your family!  -  Barbara

Anonymous said...

There are no words that are adequate at a time like this.  Just know I care....as do all your journal family.  Big hugs, love and prayers.  

Anonymous said...

Big hugs Donna...I am so sorry for your loss....I have been sick today and my son left on the puter so I though I would stop by...so sorry for the news!  I will be praying for you!  Hugs,TerryAnn

Anonymous said...

Oh Donna!!!  I am so sorry for your loss... and I am sending you prayers, and her hubby and kids, and your parents, and other sibs, for strength in coping with your loss.   Your sister is restored, whole and happy, hand on your shoulder, watching you all, until you go home to be with her also.

I am so sorry... I am glad you were with her today... Love and hugs to you...

be well,
Dawn
http://journals.aol.com/princesssaurora/CarpeDiem/

Anonymous said...

Please accept my heartfelt condolences. Prayers going up for the family.
God bless,
Sugar

Anonymous said...

So hoped prayers would bring restored health to your dear sister, but it wasn't to be.  Just lost a sister myself last year, so I know the pain you are going through.  Take comfort in all you did for her during these past months--you were a most thoughtful sister, and I am sure brightened her days.  You and yours are remembered in prayer.  Hugs, LaVern

Anonymous said...

awww so sorry...but hugs and my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family..
tina

Anonymous said...

Donna, I'm so very sorry for the loss of your sister, my tears are joining yours, my arms are giving you big hugs... I'll have a vanilla shake in her memory, k??
I thank you for letting us know, I know this entry was very hard for you!!  My prayers are with you and the family for comfort in this time of sorrow.

Joann

Anonymous said...

(((D))))),
So so sorry for your loss. I have never known what it is to have a sister, but I bet it was wonderful. May thoughts of her only bring you joy.
Win =.)

Anonymous said...

My heart aches for you in your time of all.  Prayers and hugs for you and your family.  Your sister is at peace and I pray for yours.
Joyce

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry Donna. Wish I could comfort you somehow through this computer. My heart is with you and I am praying for you .. (((((Huggggss))))).
Linda

Anonymous said...

oh donna....i'm so very sorry.  i know your heart is breaking right now, but i pray that God takes you in His arms and gives you peace and comfort during this time. (((Donna)))
gina

Anonymous said...

((((  Donna  ))))))  Hugs to you, my friend.  Your sister left this world knowing how much you cared and loved her--never doubt that.  She IS in a better place.  Heaven always is closer when there is someone there waiting and watching after you.  My thoughts and prayers are with you.  I will light a candle for you and your sister.  Hugs - Julie

Anonymous said...

Oh Donna,
My heart goes out to you.  I don't have any of the right words...just know how much you are cared for and loved by so many of us.

Hugs,
Nancy

Anonymous said...

OH Donna you are in my prayers. Honey it is ok to feel like you do. Love hurts in life. Especially when any one of our family members leave this life. Just know you are in my prayers as is all of your family. I am so sorry that your sister had to leave you.

Cherish the Great Memories!

Love to you!
Linda/llbrown247

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry for your loss.

Anonymous said...

(((DONNA))) words are never enough at a time like this but in time may you find peace from your wonderful memories of a beautiful sister

Anonymous said...

I am soo sorry to hear of your loss.  You and your family are in my prayers.  Take care

Kris

Anonymous said...

I'm so sorry, Donna.  Grieve for your loss and the void that's left, but know your sis is no longer in pain.  -- Take the time you need and know there is no right way to do it.  

many hugs,
Russ

Anonymous said...

{{{{{Donna}}}}},
I am so sorry to learn of your sister's passing. You and your family are in my prayers.
Vivian

Anonymous said...

Nothing is sadder than having to say goodbye before we are willing to let go....but her pain and suffering have been replaced with the arms of God now and there is no greater peace than that!


Kimberleigh

Anonymous said...

I'm sorry for your lost she is in a better place.

Anonymous said...

I am sorry to hear about your loss, D. My thoughts are with you.
-Paul

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry. May peace be with you and all your family. Helen

Anonymous said...

Oh Donna i am so sorry for your loss and the familys loss, I can only imagine what you are going through.
God bless your sister
love and big hugs
Katie

Anonymous said...

Donna, I am so so sorry for your loss. I just went to light a candle and your entire family is in my thoughts and prayers. Sending you HUGE long distance hugs.
Another Angel.... she must  have been something truly special.

~ Jenny

Anonymous said...

Awwwwww Donna I am so so sorry and also shocked today, to read this heartrendering news.Please know you and yours are in my payers and may Perpetual Light shine upon your Dear Sister RIP.Words are hard to come by at this very sad time.Know you are in my thoughts.My condolances to everyone.Take Care God Bless Kath
astoriasand http://journals.aol.co.uk/astoriasand/MYSIMPLERHYMES

Anonymous said...

Donna I am so sorry .....I do not even know what to say to you or to your family.  You have a special angel looking over you now.

Prayers being said for your family.

Hugs

Mari

Anonymous said...

It’s sad to know you lost a sister.  I hope she’ll live on in your heart and memory forever.  May all the times you shared stay with you, until you meet again.    Though grey skies slowly move and with misty faces we walk through memory lane while trying to accept what is before us, may you find the strength and wisdom to continue on in the comfort of warm loving memories.  God Bless you and yours in this time of sorrow.

Anonymous said...

As tears flow down my cheeks - I am so very sorry from the depths of my heart for your loss.....I know that mere words cannot do much right now...but please know that my heart, thoughts and prayers are being said for you and your family...God has received a very loving and gentle angel....Her legacy will long live on with your loving and happy memories of her...hold on tight to those.
I am here for you any time....
(((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))
Ellie

Anonymous said...

Donna I am so truly sorry for your loss sweety. i know how bad you must be hurting and I pray God give you the strength to get through this. give your family condolences for me and just know god has a very special angel now in his choir. i know you will miss her deeply but you cansee her again someday. i still miss my sissy and she has been gone for 20 years. The pain lessens each day but never ever goes away because we love them sooo much. Take care my dear sweet friend and let us know if there is anything we can do for you.

Anonymous said...

I only knew your sister through your eyes.  And she was beautiful and well loved.I cannot ever forget the milkshake story you shared with us all. I shall remember her each time that evocative smell you conjured up for us that day wafts past.  She is at rest now and at peace with God.  
I'm sure she will want us to pray for all of you whom she has left behind. Her love will always be with you and light up those days when you feel at your lowest. How could it not when you have so many fond memories to go through with her in your minds eye.
God Bless you and her family.
May she rest at peace now Donna.  And may you find solace now that she is free from pain.  At last!
Fondest love to you.

Jeanie xxx

Anonymous said...

I'm so very sorry Donna, it's hard to put into words how sad I feel for you and your sister's husband and two girls. I'm going over to light a candle for you all and I'll be praying for you. I know it sounds impossible right now but one day you'll be able to look back at the memories of your sister in healthier times and smile. She's out of pain now and I know she's up in heaven watching over you all. God bless you. With love and {{{{hugs}}}}. Jeannette xxxx  

Anonymous said...





If tomorrow starts without me, and I’m not there to see,
If the sun should rise and find your eyes all filled with tears for me;
I wish so much you wouldn’t cry the way you did today,
while thinking of the many things we didn’t get to say.
I know how much you care for me, and how much I care for you,
and each time that you think of me I know you’ll miss me too;

But when tomorrow starts without me, please try to understand,
that an angel came and called my name and took me by the hand,
and said my place was ready in heaven far above,
and that I’d have to leave behind all those I dearly love.

But as I turned to walk away, a tear fell from my eye,
for all life, I’d always thought I didn’t want to die.
I had so much to live for and so much yet to do.
it seemed almost impossible that I was leaving you.
I thought of all the love we shared and all the fun we had.
If I could relive yesterday, I thought, just for a while,
I’d say goodbye and hug you and maybe see you smile.

But when I walked through Heaven’s gates, I felt so much at home.
When God looked down and smiled at me, from His great golden throne,
He said, "This is eternity and all I’ve promised you,
Today your life on earth is past but here it’s starts anew.
I promise no tomorrow, but today will always last.
and since each day’s the same, there’s no longing for the past.

But you have been so faithful, so trusting, so true.
Though there were times you did some things you knew you shouldn’t do.
And you have been forgiven and now at last you’re free.
So won’t you come and take my hand and share my life with me?"

So if tomorrow starts without me, don’t think we’re far apart,
for every time you think of me, please know I’m in your heart.




Anonymous said...

Donna I am so, so sorry to hear the news of your sister. My thoughts are with you and your sisters family at this time. Much love, Joan

Anonymous said...

You've said all that needs saying now, Donna.
I wish you and yours strength at this sad and very difficult time.

Guido

Anonymous said...

so sorry to hear of your sister and your loss. you two we were so close and I know she knows how much you loved her. {{{{{DONNA}}}}}}}

Anonymous said...

Dear Donna I am so very sorry ..love Jan xx

Anonymous said...

OMG ,Donna I am shocked,I had no idea,I did not get your entry alert.Thanks to Guido for informing.
My heart goes out to you and your family for the loss of your sister whom you cherished.Take some comfort  knowing that she knew how much she meant to you.
**************************
Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there; I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow,
I am the sun on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there; I did not die.  (author-Mary Frye)

~c~

Anonymous said...

Donna, I lit a candle for your sister.  And I am also praying for you and the whole family.  I am at a loss for words at what to say.

You know, you said you could not write an entry that would do her justice.  But you did good when you honored her by lifting your milkshake and saying cheers!  I bet she liked milkshakes, right?  She is proud of you right now for being brave.  And oh yeah, you can be scared and ache and be brave all at the same time.  

Hang in there as best you can, Sweetie.  

Krissy  

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry for your loss, and your family's loss at this sad time.  Yes, she has her wings...and she is pain free...and safe in Gods arms...my prayers and love go out to all of you...hugs and much much love,
Joyce

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry for your loss.  You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.  

*hugs*
Shelly

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Anonymous said...

My heart aches for your loss and for all the pain you've had and have today!  My tears are flowing too.  She IS in a better place ... she was going through so much!  My prayers are definitely with all of you these days!  HUGS ~ Lois B

Anonymous said...

Donna, I am so deeply sorry ........the bond that the two of you had, will remain forever...you and your family are in my prayers..with deepest sympathy,Carolina

Anonymous said...

((((((((((((Donna))))))))) I am so very sorry. Yes, your beautiful sister is in heaven and has her wings definately. No more pain and suffering will she have to endure. If you ever need to talk email me and I will send you my number. I am always here for you.
Love,
Cindy

Anonymous said...

D I am so sorry our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Hugs jean

Anonymous said...

As I read this Donna my heart goes out to your and your family, my sincerest condolences to you all.  The bond you had with your sister will live on forever.  My tears are flowing also for you my friend as I know how much pain you must be feeling and the loss.  Here is to your sister and to you, a chocolate milkshake (_)o
I will be in Buffalo, November 23,24,25, if you are up to it, I would love to take you to dinner my friend.  God bless you and your family and your dear sister.

Anonymous said...

I am so, so sorry Donna.  She was so brave.  I am glad she is at peace and no longer suffering.  Love, Linda

Anonymous said...

((((((((Donna))))))))) I am so very sorry - we all know how much you loved your Sister and how close you were/are. There are no words...Blessings, Teresa

Anonymous said...

I am so very sorry for your loss. Hugs, Estela

Anonymous said...

my D,
my heart breaks in half for you. Tears are flowing here...i am SO very sorry, from the bottom of my heart. There are no words to help other than to tell you i love you and i want to hug you and let you know that you are so cared for. There is no more pain for her.....and yes, she is in a better place. But that will not help your broken heart right now. If you need me, i am here.
love, lisa

Anonymous said...

Donna I am so very sorry for your loss.  Please do not think your heart is selfish, you loved your sister, of course you miss her.  My heart still misses my sister!  You are in my prayers.  Linda

Anonymous said...

{{{{Donna}}}} I'm so sorry. My prayers are with you and your family.
Lisa

Anonymous said...

Dear Donna.....So sorry to hear of the loss of your Sister. I came by today, to read, and light a Candle for your Sis...as I have done every couple of Days.I cried with you and for you. May you find comfort,and know that she is free from Pain now.
Aileen....X

Anonymous said...

Oh Donna, I'm so, so sorry, but as you said, she's in a better place now.  She was suffering so much the past few months.  Sending you big hugs!
Missie

Anonymous said...

My Dearest Donna.

I am so very sorry to come on and find this entry. I am typing this through tears, yet i never knew you sister,only what you allowed us to share.

My heartfelt sympathy goes out especially to you and to her family. I cannot begin to think what you must all be going through at this very, very sad time.

Another angel has been called home..........may she spread her wings and soar..... free from pain once more.

God Bless you all
hugs Jayne

Anonymous said...

Sorry for your loss I'll keep you and your family in my prayers

Anonymous said...

Sorry of your sad loss.   God be with you  and your family at this sad time.
and think of all the happy memories you have had.......  Johnmichael

Anonymous said...

Donna

Please accept my condolences. Prayers & Blessing to You & Yours. And I am so very sorry for your lost. I wish I could ease your pain....


{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}

Brenda

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry.  I'm sorry.  There is nothing in the world like losing a sibling.  I've said it before but, it's like this invisible string that ties you together is broken and you can feel it and it hurts.  You and your family are in my prayers.  love, Shelly

Anonymous said...

Donna, I am so very sorry to hear of your loss.  My prayers and thoughts continue to be with you and your family at this difficult time.  Comfort yourself as well as you can with your precious memories of your dear sister ... I've found that is the only thing that has helped me.  God Bless!

Peace~
Linda

Anonymous said...

Ohhh hun i am very sorry for your loss of your sister. I KNOW how you feel hun as i lost my mother 2 yrs ago and it still feels like someone just came and stole her from me. You are NOT selfish to feel the way you do hun. Your only human and thats ok. My prayers are with you and your family right now and if you need to chat just email me ok.

Hugs and luvs
Carolyn

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Anonymous said...

Donna

My heart goes out to you and your family in this time of loss.  I will keep you in my prayers.  I am at a loss for words.  Just know we are all thinking about you.

Sam

Anonymous said...

(((Donna))) I'm so very sorry for your loss. Many prayers for you & your family. Emmi

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Anonymous said...

I am so sorry.... my thoughts with you and your family at this time... {{{hugs}}} And, now I go to light a candle in remembrance of a wonderful sister.

Anonymous said...

OMG D, I'm soooooooooooooooo sorry for your loss! My thoughts and prayers are with you and yopur family during your time of need.

((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))
Angela

Anonymous said...

Donna,

I'm sorry for your loss.  

My thoughts, and prayers are with you, and your family.  I'm sure your heart   aches with the loss.  Yet, I pray, that in time, as you think of your precious Sister, a smile will be on your face, and in your heart, as you remember all the good times, and how blessed you were to have each other.

I wish you strength, courage, and faith during this time.

Cindy

Anonymous said...

Donna,
I'm so so sorry about this. I felt how close you were to her through your writings.  I could tell how much you loved her through your journal. I can only imagine how loved she actually felt in your presence. You took good care of her. Don't ever doubt that. And I know she's watching over you and you will meet her again someday. Then, you both can have a milkshake together again.
God Bless you both,
Love,
Pam

Anonymous said...

Donna,
I sensed this way coming & I can only pray that you have the courage to accept it.  I know she has suffered the past year & she is now without pain & in a better place.  I pray that your pain will ease someday & that you will be able to celebrate her life, all the joys you have shared with her.

My thoughts & prayers are with you & your family~

{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}
Marie

Anonymous said...

So very sorry for your loss.
Lisa

Anonymous said...

I'm so sorry about the loss of your sister, there is nothing I can say that will take the hurt away.  Just remember all the good memories.  Take care of yourself.  Joni

Anonymous said...

Donna I know no words of mine can ease this pain you have right now. Please know though that you're in so many's prayers and thoughts and as we rejoice that your sister is in the arms of Jesus, I know you and all who love her ache and simply miss her and hurt.

I'm praying for each of you that she's left behind.

God Bless
Christy

Anonymous said...

I'm so sorry you will be missing your sister.  I'm crying and praying for you and your family right now.  So sorry.
Traci

Anonymous said...

 Donna, my deepest condolences to you and your family on the loss of your very special sister.

                    Julie

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry Donna...my condolances also.

Bethe

Anonymous said...

Oh Donna I am so sorry (lifting my tea to your milkshake)...there is nothing I can say to make this better for you, but know your sister and you have so many memories and no one can take them from you so she will always be with you in your heart.

My prayers for you and your family and your sisters family.

Michele

Anonymous said...

Thinking of you and your family during this sad time. *hugs*

Leigh :)

Anonymous said...

I haven't been around lately but please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. We feel for you, D... and if you need someone to talk to, you know where to find me.

Your sister is indeed in a better place now, filled with all the happiness and love that you gave her here on earth. She'll always be looking down on you, proud of everything you accomplish, and I know that she'll always be in your heart, so she's never truly gone.

"When someone dies, you don't get over it by forgetting-- you get over it by remembering. And you know no person is ever truly lost or gone once they have loved us as we have loved them."

Hang in there.
Morgan
xxxx

Anonymous said...

((((Donna))))  I cannot imagine your pain.  Yes, she IS indeed in a better place, well and whole again.  I know you will miss her.  We love you and pray for your peace.
Sharon

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Anonymous said...

I'm so sorry:(  Of course this is how you're feeling.  She's important to you, understandably.  Prayers are with you, and her.  -- Robin

Anonymous said...

No words can describe how sad I am. My heart goes out to you
and to all your loved ones. I did not know your sister personally,
but through your entries I felt close to her. And when you spoke
about your hurt and your sadness, my heart was heavy too. Many
times I could not comment, because I felt like no words I could
find to comfort you. I felt helpless when it came to words for comfort,
but I prayed for your sister and lit a candle for her many times. Your
entry, with the news that your dear sister went home, makes me feel like
I ran against a wall. My prayers are with you and your loved ones in
this difficult time. I am so sorry. Maria

Anonymous said...

My deepest sympathies to you on the loss of you sister.  I almost lost one of mine a few years back but was blessed by her recovery, I do know I'd miss mine too.  May our dear Lord comfort you at this time of deep sorrow.  'On Ya' - ma

Anonymous said...

I've just dropped by to offer my support at this difficult time.
http://journals.aol.co.uk/acoward15/andy-the-bastard

Anonymous said...

Here is a hug for you! she may be gone but she is not forgotten. Your sister will forever be in your heart. May God bring a calm to your whole family.

Kelli
http://journals.aol.com/kamdghwmw/noonmom

Anonymous said...

Donna, I cannot fully express my sorrow.  I am so very sorry.  I hope that you and your family will be able to find the peace you need to get through the next several days.  Please rest and take care of yourselves, also.
Lori

Anonymous said...

Dear know this is so hard for you, I've been there, losing my Sis Elaine and 17 year old nephew due to a Doctor driving drunk in PA, all you can do is remember you Sis and the wonderful memories you shared with her and know she's now in Gods care and happy.  It takes awhile dear after losing a loved one, that's part of grieving, but hopefully you'll one day find comfort as I have. They are always with me, always will be and on any special occassion I light a candle in their memory to say thinking of you and it helps me.  God bless you dear. Arlene (AJ)

Anonymous said...

Donna I am so sorry to hear your news ~ your Sister will forever be in your heart never to be forgotten ~ God grant you all the strength to get through this difficult time ~ Ally x

Anonymous said...

Donna....You are in my thoughts and prayers. I have lurked on your post for many months because I am a huge hockey fan but your journal has given me so much more. I loved hearing about the love you have for your sister and family....reminds me of my own sisters and family. Know you and your family are in my prayers. Jean M. Locke

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Anonymous said...

So sorry to hear this news.  I knew it was coming but I'm sure it is still a bit of a shock to you.  I wish there was something I could say or do to take away the pain.  Take care friend and know I'll be thinking about your heartache and sending prayers and love your way.

Phil

Anonymous said...

Oh hunny, *hugs* I am teary eyed and crying softly myself right now. On my way to light a candle. Hun im so, so beyond words that can express how sorry i am for your sisters passing. As u said though hun she has truly earned her wings, she is no longer suffering. I know for sure where she is she is smiling upon, u, ur family, her loved ones. Shes happy, at peace in a wonderful place. However i cant fathom at  all what u are truly going thru right now. I wish i knew what to really say. But i am praying for u and ur family thru this tragic time. If u need anything at all, a hug, well virutal, shoulder to lean on. Please let me know. We love you hun!
Hugs, love and many prayers, Leslie

Anonymous said...

I am sorry for your loss.  May God comfort you and your family.  I know the love of sisters is a strong and everlasting love..  You will be in my prayers. take care and know we are all here for you.
Take care,
Dondie

Anonymous said...

I'm so sorry Donna. Any words that are said are of little comfort right now, but please know that u and ur family are in my thoughts and prayers. Try to take comfort in the memories u hold in ur heart and the love u shared.
(((((((((Hugs)))))))))
Gail

Anonymous said...

My heart breaks for you, Donna  I am so very sorry!
Hugs, Ann

Anonymous said...

Oh Donna I am so very sorry for the loss of your sister.
Hugs and prayers to you and your family.
Carol xxx

Anonymous said...

Donna, I`m so sorry for your loss and I`m thinking about you. plaese take care.
bella xx

Anonymous said...

Dearest Donna,
You and your family hold a special place in my heart as you walk this long lonely journey. May you find comfort and warmth wrapped in the arms of an Angel. May your sister Rest In Peace.

                  I'm Free
Don't grieve for me, for now I'm free,
I'm following the path God laid for me,
I took His hand when I heard Him call,
I turned my back and left it all.
I could not stay another day,
To laugh, to love, to work, or play.
Task left undone must stay that way,
I found that peace at the close of day.
If my parting has left a void,
Then fill it with remembered joy.
A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss,
Ah, yes, these things I, too, will miss.
Be not burdened with times of sorrow,
I wish you the sunshine of tomorrow.
My life's been full, I've savored much,
Good friends, good times, a loved one's touch.
Perhaps my time seemed all too brief,
Don't lengthen it now with undue grief.
Lift up your hearts and share with me,
God wanted me now, He set me free!

All my love,
 Debbie

Anonymous said...

I am so very sorry to hear of your sister passing! I wish I had the right words of comfort, but I don't. Other than to say you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers..I'll look into the heavens tonight for the brightest star and I will know that that is your sister..
Many hugs to you,
Sheri

Anonymous said...

I can't put into words how I feel for you right now. This news made my stomach turn. Love you so much Donna...you're one in a million, and you're one hell of a sister!!

All my love and respects,

Stevie
xxxxxx

Anonymous said...

Nah, that last comment of mine wasn't enough to say to you, but I don't know what else to say. I'm so sorry babes. Love ya.

xxxxxx

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry for your loss.  I know the pain you are feeling, having lost two wonderful sisters myself.  Gentle hugs, Tells x

Anonymous said...

(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((HUGSTOYOU))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))I am so sorry for the loss of your Sister.when I heard,my heart just went out for you and for your family.I am praying for you all.God bless you all.

Anonymous said...

No words can express how truly sorry and saddened I am for your loss god bless may she rest in peace love Vicky

Anonymous said...

Donna...
I wish I were there to give you a big hug right now, my heart is aching for you and your entire family...I am sooo very sorry.  This just has me in tears, through your writing it feels as if we too knew your sister....we could feel the bond between you two....just in the way you wrote about her. She will never be forgotten that is for sure.... Going to light all my candles tonight in memory of her!  Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you all.....We love you Donna and are here for you always!

Hugs
Terri

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Anonymous said...

Words can not explain the loss you are feeling right now and my heart aches for you. God has a plan for you thru all of this. I am sure that your sister misses you just as much as you miss her. I will be praying for you.

Much love,

TB

Anonymous said...

Donna, love and a big hug to you, hang in there, Bill

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Anonymous said...

((((((((((Donna))))))))))

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Prayers will be with you and your family at this time of your loss.

Sunny

Anonymous said...

OH NO!!!!Donna my heart is so sad for you. How hollow you must feel right now. she was your sister and you loved her somuch....So unfair..I'm so so so sorry and I know nothing I can say will help at all. If I was there I would hold you and let you cry....
donna In TEXAS

Anonymous said...

As soon as I saw this entry I started to cry.  I just did not expect her to go so soon, but I know that you loved and cared for her as much as sister could, and prayed for her and engaged many in praying for her, so this was a glorious event as well, an expression of great love.  May your heart have ease and just be filled with love.  Gerry

Anonymous said...

Special thoughts....
Linda.....

Anonymous said...

So very sorry to hear about your loss. I'm praying for you and your family.
Barb- http://journals.aol.com/barbpinion/HEYLETSTALK

Anonymous said...

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My prayers and with you and your family. Hugs, Detje Bea

Anonymous said...

My thoughts are with you and your family.
I have felt the same way about my Mom for a long time.
It is hard to get past ... but Ialso know that she is in a
better place and no longer suffering.
Bless you and your family,
Dee

Anonymous said...

I am so very sorry......Please know that I will be praying for you and your entire family...MAY OUR PRECIOUS LORD BLESS AND COMFORT YOU ALL TONIGHT, TOMORROW AND IN THE DAYS TO COME.
LOVE,
CARLENE

Anonymous said...

Just heard in j-land about the loss of your sister so wanted to come here to offer my synpathy even though you don't know me. God bless you and family. Paula

Anonymous said...

OMG D
I am SOOOOO SRRRRY!!! for the loss of your sister! My heart breaks knowing that you have to go thru something so hard as losing a precious loved one. I know words can not erase the pain that you are feeling but I just want to say that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family... Sending many hugs your way!!! Please if there is anything you need please please do not hesitate to ask!
Try to stay strong and know that your sis is now in heaven with God in a better place than this place we call earth.
HUGS XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO
Steph

Anonymous said...

Oh, D, I'm so sorry.  I pray that your family finds some peace and comfort knowing that your sister is no longer in pain although life is not fair at all.  Love you and sending you a huge hug.  Chris

Anonymous said...

i am so sorry for your loss

Deb

Anonymous said...

I'm very sorry to hear of your loss.  My prayers go out to you and your sisters family.
~Tiffany S.

Anonymous said...

I'm so sorry for your loss Donna.  My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
Hugs,
D

Anonymous said...

Oh Donna.  I just found out.  I feel badly I didn't know sooner.  My thoughts and prayers are with you sweetie.  I know this is such a difficult time for you.  I don't know what I'd do if I were in your shoes.  Just know that there are so many people that care about you and are here for you if need be.  Take care of yourself and may God's love shine down on you.  Luv ya!

Allison

Anonymous said...

Dear Donna, I wish there were some magic words to take away your pain and sorrow but I know from experience there are no words. My deepest sympathy to you and your family but especially to her dear husband and girls.
With saddness
Debbie
xxx

Anonymous said...

I apologise for my late arrival here Donna.My deepest condolences to you and your family for your sad loss,I am so sorry and to hear the news this morning was so very sad.My best wishes to you and your family for guidance and love through this hard time,we are all here,you know that I just wish we could be beside you in person to hold you close,but we are all thinking of you and sending our love to you with our prayers,love zoe xxxxxxxxxxxxx  

Anonymous said...

Heyya, So sorry you lost your sister, Thinking of you, Beckie x

Anonymous said...

Sorry to hear about your lost. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

Anonymous said...

{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{~D}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
you know how I feel. Just want you to know that I expect
a graphic that pertains to your sister. It's my request for a tag to be made.
Something that represents her before cancer Her Life, Her likes. It's the only way I know how I can celebrate her life thru you, and this of course is only if you want to and when your ready.

I Love you from a distance we've been friends long time here on the PC, so you know you can ask for anything. I'll pray for strength and aching broken heart to mend. It will mend because her love will always be there.

Thank you for sharing your pain throughout this. You are brave and loving sister and if you don't know a longtime really good friend. Heck we raised our babies online. Now our grandkids, not pushing your son by anymeans...hint hint

{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{~D}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
love you!

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Anonymous said...

My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family tonight, Donna. So very sorry to hear about your sister. I'm so flustered that I can barely type. Heaven has a new Angel, and I bet she's shaking her milkshake up there! ((((HUGS))))
Sincerely, Rose~*

Anonymous said...

I have found this entry at last after reading about it in other blogs. You know my thoughts as I posted them in another blog. Hugs Gaz xxxx

Anonymous said...


I'M SO VERY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS DONNA, prayers to you & your family. May your sister rest in piece now and be filled with all the love of her family & friends.

- Jessica Lynn

Anonymous said...

Dear Donna,

I have just now come to your journal, without knowing what you've endured the last few days, so very sorry for not having known because I alienate myself when my own chips are down..  Saddened by the news and offering a comforting hand, knowing that it isn't enough but praying you feel it anyway.

You have my deepest sympathies, Donna.  You, and your family, are in my thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time.

::tight squeeze::

Michelle

Anonymous said...

My heart is sadden by this news ~ I know in times such as this, there are very few words of comfort to offer. I am truly sorry Donna. Know that my thoughts and prayers will continue for you and yours always. I am here if you need anything at all. Take care of you my friend,
Katie

Anonymous said...

    I'm sorry. All my love and all my prayers to you and yours. Your sister is in a safe place, with God who truly loves her. She is no longer hurting. Take care of yourself, for her sake.
Jude
http://journals.aol.com/jmorancoyle/MyWay

Anonymous said...

Donna I am in tears as I read - I feel so bad for not being around for you. I'm so so sorry for your loss - it must be so hard for you at this time. Your sister must be making such a beautiful angel hun and she will look after you now. Lots of love and hugs Lainey xxxxx

Anonymous said...

Sweet Donna - I just read this blog enrty, now in tears as I sit here typing this. :( I am so sorry for what happen. I have been praying for you sister and the family. I guess God just wanted her with him to be a angel. I know things are hard now but things will be better in time. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. Bless you hun. *HUGS*

Anonymous said...

Sweet Donna - I just read this blog enrty, now in tears as I sit here typing this. :( I am so sorry for what happen. I have been praying for you sister and the family. I guess God just wanted her with him to be a angel. I know things are hard now but things will be better in time. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. Bless you hun. *HUGS*

Anonymous said...

I am so very sorry to hear this.  Yet I am happy that your sister is in a much better place!  And with wings she can watch over you.

Kathy

Anonymous said...

Dear Donna,

I haven't been online since the 6th and I came to check your Journal when I got online.  I think I swallowed my heart when I saw your entry.  I am sorry I was not on before...not that my post could ever take away the pain you have been through.  I just think it is important you know how many people care about you & are here for you.  There are no words to express how deeply sorry I am for your loss.  If there is anything I can do please just let me know.  My love to you  my sweet friend.

Hugs,
Veronica

Anonymous said...

Donna, I'm so saddened for you, but I know that you would not want your sister to suffer any longer than she has.  I pray that she rests in peace and that you and your family will truly find comfort in the wonderful life she lived here on earth.  
Kathy

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Anonymous said...

Awww Donna...you don't have a selfish heart at all.    I can just feel the love for your sister flowing all through here.    I'm so sorry.
~Meg
PS:  My sister calls me Seester....brings tears to my eyes for you.

Anonymous said...

Donna,

I wanted to let you know I am so sorry to hear of your sister's passing.  I just found out TODAY that Kimmie (demandn) died December 26th.  I was MIA for so long I had NO IDEA.  You and your family are in my prayers.  I lit a candle for your sis.
Hugs,
Gina