~ Rolling In ~

   

I was off working on a graphic for this evenings entry and really didn't know what I'd write about.  I had so many thoughts and emotions going through my head.  I took a break and started reading a few journals.  A good friend had an entry about friends, how many, what is your definition, expectations, etc.  It made me think, and I decided to use some of that for my entry.  Thanks Lisa!!

 

I got to work today and a co-worker/friend came to my desk with two bags.  She donated two baskets for my sisters benefit next weekend.  They will be used in the Chinese Auction.  For those of you not familiar, you buy tickets and visit the items for auction, generally just displayed on tables.  In front of each item is a bag/bucket/container.  You drop a ticket in the container of the gift you'd like to win, no limits.  Winner is selected by a drawing sometime during the evening.  I was stunned by the beauty of the baskets.  I was brought to tears that she would take time out of her life to go shopping and create these wonderful items.  No questions asked, she just did it.  For my sister, a woman she has never seen.  I was touched by the generosity.  Expectations?  No I had none.  I mentioned the benefit, and the multiple raffles, but asked for prayers.  Over and above prayers is a bonus and so appreciated. 

 

Later in the day another friend/coworker called me.  She is off on disability as she had shoulder surgery last Friday.  She has three baskets and asked if I could stop and pick them up.  I will bring her dinner and sit and chat for a bit tomorrow before the hockey game.  Does she want dinner?  No.  Did she have expectations of something in return?  No.  I was planning on brining her dinner one night anyway this just works out perfect. 

 

The top graphic includes a couple extra baskets that have alsobeen put together and are at my house.  I just thought I'd share the beauty.  The pictures had to be resized, but you get the idea and no doubt can see the beauty.

 

Friends, life is empty without them.  They come in all shapes and sizes.  Offer different things.  Stay forever or come and go.  It's part of life.  Some come into your life to teach a lesson, shine a light, give direction and move on.  It isn't always a bad thing.  Sometimes it is.  Sometimes expectations on one side are far more then can be done.  Life can often lead is us in different directions only to meet up again at a later time.  I don't think I expect much from others.  Honesty, trust, and the ability to be me.  Love or like me for whom I am, not what you want me to be.  I will give you the same in return.  Loyalty.  Yes that too, no strings.  You don't have to prove anything, I accept you.  Sure it isn't always a match in heaven and it doesn't always work.  We are all different, we have different interests and a mix of different friends, hobbies, etc. putting strings on these other things will make a relationship go sour faster then flipping a switch.  Allowing the freedom builds the foundation that much stronger.  Trust.

 

I talked to the girls putting on the benefit and the number of items they have is unbelievable.  It filled me with so many emotions.  I am proud.  I am proud that she is my sister.  That she is so loved folks will give of themselves, no questions asked.  They would support her no matter what, but in her time of need they are giving, sometimes things they don't even have.  How wonderful is that? 

 

So though you may not have expectations of friends, co-workers, acquaintances, it is magical when folks come forward and give of themselves.  Just like here.  So many came forward and lit a candle, are saying prayers, sending good wishes.  It warms me to my very core.  Do I expecteveryone to do it?  No.  But to see folks who don't necessarily believe what I do, do it because they care.  It's wonderful and I will never be able to say thank you enough.

 

All of the graphics below are made with pictures I'd taken.  I was feeling sentimental, warm and fuzzy.  Nothing great, nothing exceptional or extravagant, just graphics my heart went with.  Not to assume anything, but they are snaggable.  I normally ask that you don't take personal pictures, but these are the exception if you'd like them. 

 

The evening flew by and I will be off to bed.  My boys play their first playoff game tomorrow.  I'm excited and nervous, but confident.  I hope everyone is doing well and please know you guys are the greatest!

 

Hugs

~d

 

                

 

          

 

       

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